Let your feelings come through. You tend to bury all the emotions you are feeling and do just about anything, instead of facing what lies ahead. This year, try to do something a little different. Instead of running away from what you are feeling, stop and think about what you are feeling. It’ll catch up with you sooner or later anyway. Work on your relationships. This is not your strong point. Instead of telling the people you love how you feel, you don’t say anything. Try to focus on your interaction with others and let them know how you really feel. “I love you” isn’t that bad to say. You don’t have to be afraid of it. You don’t have to feel vulnerable if you confess your feelings towards someone. These three little words mean a lot to you but also to those who hear them.
Silence is worth gold. Sometimes you just need to close it.
Listen for a change.
Sometimes people just need the support. They just need to be listened to. You don’t always have to give your opinion or your advice. Maybe they didn’t come for that. Maybe they need you to keep it closed and just listen. Focus on the present. Stop worrying about the future. This way you lose the sense of the present. Thinking about what’s going to happen, you are not living now, in the present moment where you are meant to be. This year, stop and smell the flowers on the way.
Find the things that turn you on. In fact, you already know what turns you on. You learned about it last year. And now that you know them, give your best to make these things come true. Live your life the way you deserve it. Forget about the people who hurt you. There will always be people in life who will use you. People who will manipulate you. People who are toxic.
You have to know how to recognize these people and get rid of them. Do yourself a favor by cleaning your life from bad people.
Think about yourself. Make yourself a priority. You have always favored others over yourself. You have always given so much love to everyone except yourself. Choose for yourself this year, and make it a year to remember.
Go on the trip you’ve been canceling for so long. You always found new excuses not to make this trip. Everything is settled, you must go. Don’t think about it too much, and go straight away. You’ll take care of the rest when you get there. Let go of the things you don’t like. If you’re stuck at a job you hate, quit. There are a lot of other things you can do, and who knows, you might just find that you enjoy doing something that you never thought you would.
Don’t be the person who keeps you from being happy.
Wake up and live the life! Don’t miss out on amazing opportunities because you are unsure of yourself. Go with the flow and embrace all that life has to offer.
Leave your exes in the past. Let go of the memories. Forget the past. Go on with your life because if you don’t, you’ll never find someone new to love. What about your exes? They’re probably with someone else now. They’ve moved on, and so should you. Leave if you feel like it. Don’t be afraid to leave the city where you live. Don’t let routine stop you from trying something new. The reason you are unhappy and alone is the fear of leaving. There is someone out there for you. You just have to go to find it. Stop satisfying others. You are there when it comes to comforting a friend, but you hold back your own tears. You don’t have to be strong all the time.
It’s okay to fall apart sometimes. It’s okay to think of yourself for a while and leave others behind.
Learn how to be responsible.
If you screw up something, be brave enough and face the consequences. Stop blaming others for your problems. You are the only one responsible. The excuses you make will only drag you down. Achieve your goals. Wake up! Stop dreaming and do something to make those dreams come true. Be more positive. Stop thinking negatively. When you think negatively, bad things start to happen to you. Change the record of your life, and turn it into a happy song. Everything else will work out.
Rome was not built overnight. Be patient. You will be rewarded for all your efforts. You just have to wait a little longer. And don’t think that no one notices what you are doing and how hard you are doing in every area.
Stop your hate!
Forgive those who need to be forgiven, and move on. This grudge that you carry inside is eating away at you. It only makes things worse. A ‘sorry’ is all you need to feel better and happier. If you don’t, you will never be at peace. You love others, but you must love yourself too. In your eyes, you are the worst. You will give absolutely everything to those around you. You are able to give your all the attention and love that you have, only to end up with nothing. Be kind to yourself, don’t make yourself miserable.
Let go of your grudges. Scorpios are capable of holding a grudge forever. But by doing that, you only make it worse. Your peace is disturbed, you don’t feel well and all because of an argument. Forgiveness is the only way out.
It doesn’t matter what other people think of you.
You pretend to be someone you’re not out of fear that people won’t like you. You are afraid that someone will use your vulnerability, so you put on a mask to protect yourself. Be careful, because by pretending not to be who you are, you can easily lose yourself. Stop worrying so much. Your anxiety is at its peak. You think too much with every step, and when even the smallest thing doesn’t turn out the way you planned, you freak out. Stop worrying and let life take its course. Just follow it and make the most of it.
It’s okay to show your emotions. You don’t have to be strong all the time. You don’t have to pretend nothing is wrong with you. Showing your emotions and being vulnerable doesn’t mean you are weak. You have to open up if you want to know people and one day meet that special person that you have been waiting for for so long. Don’t be afraid of love.
Until then, all you have received from love has been pain and tears. You are afraid to love again because it never ended as planned.
But, there is no reason to be afraid of love. All of these things that you’ve been through, that wasn’t love. You haven’t seen what love really is yet, love doesn’t hurt, ever. Don’t be hard on yourself. You are not the Almighty. You can’t be in two places at the same time. Your goals are high, but don’t be sad if you don’t reach them. You expect too much of yourself, and you keep failing. Set smaller goals first, hit them, and then go set bigger goals.
Go and travel. Nothing should stop you. Go where you want to go, and see all the corners of the world you want to see.
If you don’t do it now, you’ll regret it later in life. You will regret not doing what you wanted
Hold on to the things that turn you on. If you get up in the morning with very little will to live, then something is very wrong with your life. Let go of anything that puts pressure on you. You deserve only the best, and you deserve to be around people who will help you feel so much better. It’s okay to start all over again. You are never too old to completely change your life. If you are unhappy or there is something new that you would like to try, do not hesitate to give it a try!
Don’t just sit around waiting for things or people to come to you. If there is something or someone that you can’t help but think of, go get it. There is no point in feeling sorry for yourself. You are doing yourself a disservice. If you run after something, you will either get it or experience what not to do the next time you try. Try saying ‘I love you’.
If you want to be loved, you must also love. It is normal that you are afraid of love; you were seriously injured.
But if you never give yourself the chance to love someone again, no one will love you. Try to say: “I love you”. This time it won’t hurt. Be kind to others. It is the greatest reward you can get, seeing someone else feel better or happy because of something you have done. Not to mention that there is karma. All the good things you do will come straight back to you.
People aren’t meant to hurt you. You are afraid of being hurt because you are giving yourself completely to a relationship. You are an open book, and you let everyone in. You love unconditionally, and that’s the reason you usually get hurt. But unconditional love pays off. You will meet someone who will love you back and you will not regret loving them unconditionally. It’s not your fault every time.
When someone leaves you, don’t blame yourself. When someone hurts you, again, it’s not your fault. Stop taking responsibility for others.
You are destined to do great things. You are not an ordinary person. You know you were made for great things. You know that what matters is on the inside and not on the outside. You are a dreamy person full of love and compassion that you give so easily to everyone around you. And because of that, when people are hurt and feel lost, they know they can always turn to you.