It usually takes many years of experience and many failed relationships to notice that you have a habit of falling in love with people who aren’t right for you and to see why you’re constantly attracted to those who aren’t right for you. you.
And that’s why we’re here to give you a hand and tell you why you keep looking for the love you think you want, instead of the love you actually need.
It’s not something you consciously seek out, but you’re still attracted to someone you can be dominant with.
Deep down inside you have a desire to be better than the other person, but in the end, that brings you more harm than good.
And even if you don’t notice your partner’s submissive role at the beginning, later in the relationship you will have the role of parent and teacher.
Eventually, you’ll be frustrated that you always have to be the adult, more mature partner. And all of this is telling you to focus your energy on someone who will be your equal.
Yes, you might feel threatened by this person at first, but soon you’ll find it’s a relief to have a partner in real life.
When you think of your perfect person, you make a list of the qualities and characteristics they should have.
You put all their good and bad sides on a scale and it prevents you from digging deeper and getting to know someone better.
During this process, you are still ignoring chemistry.
You disregard your heart and instincts, and eventually you see that you’re not happy with someone you thought was right for you.
If you’re a Gemini, you’re always attracted to someone who looks like you.
You are attracted to spontaneous and adventurous people, someone who will be an exciting and romantic partner and who will send you on a roller coaster of emotions.
But unfortunately, it’s usually not someone who is right for you, and it’s not the person who will give you the security you need.
I’m not telling you to stop looking for butterflies, I’m just advising you to take other things into consideration when choosing someone to spend the rest of your life with.
Look for someone who will be your refuge, someone who will calm you down and whose love will make you feel at home.
Your problem is that you are generally more in love with the idea of love than with a real person.
And that idealistic, romantic point of view often gets you in a lot of trouble because it completely shuts your mind to where romance is in question.
While following your heart is a good thing, there are also other things to consider before committing to someone new because sadly, love isn’t always enough.
Make sure you find a compatible partner and someone with whom things have a better chance of working out.
Leos are generally attracted to people who look like them.
Even though they like to be the dominant partner in the relationship, they want to have someone who will challenge their authority and someone they will consider a decent opponent.
And although a relationship like this is interesting and intriguing at first, after a while it becomes tiring and exhausting.
You need someone who will be down to earth because they are the only type of person who will bring some peace into your life.
If you’re a Virgo, you like to be in control. You want to be perfect and you want to make everyone around you as close to perfect as possible.
So when you meet someone who is your complete opposite and whose life is a disaster, you make it your mission to set things right.
Of course, this type of relationship can never end well.
You feel a desperate need to have love in your life so you usually end up falling in love with someone just because they gave their heart to you.
You want to reciprocate and therefore disregard your real feelings towards this person.
I know you crave a karmic relationship and find your other half, but these things can’t be forced.
They happen when they’re supposed to and the only thing you can do is patiently wait for it to happen to you.
If you are Scorpio, you are always attracted to someone who is obviously unreachable and out of your reach.
Naturally, you end up hurting for someone you’ve known from day one and could never really have.
Scorpios love to play games, but that doesn’t mean you should spend your life chasing after someone.
Instead, if you want to be truly happy, you must aspire to have something more consistent and permanent.
How many times have you heard that opposites attract? And if that’s the truth, it’s also a known fact that people who have too many differences have a hard time staying together for too long.
This is exactly what happens to you all the time. You are always attracted to someone whose personality traits differ from yours.
And while it might be intriguing at first, you eventually realize that someone you have nothing in common with can’t be a forever person.
If you’re a Capricorn, you tend to fall in love with independent, self-sufficient people.
While this is the type that won’t smother you and will respect your personal space, it also turns out that this is the type that makes you feel emotionally neglected.
I’m not telling you to chase after someone needy or possessively jealous, but you should definitely seek out someone who will give you their undivided attention and love.
The most common mistake you make when it comes to relationships is trying to mirror yourself in your partner.
To be honest, you’ve spent your entire love life trying to find the opposite gendor version of yourself.
But just because you think it’s the person you hope to become doesn’t mean it’s going to be your soulmate or that you’re compatible or destined to be.
Pisces are emotion givers and that makes them the perfect target for vampires and emotion takers.
When you take care of someone, your love for them is unconditional and you never hold back your emotions.
Naturally, you are usually attracted to people who successfully awaken this emotion in you.
But unfortunately, you often find yourself trapped in an empathetic and narcissistic type of relationship and it is always you who are in the worst position to do so.