When you pay more attention to your phone than him.
When you’re vague about your feelings.
When you don’t clean up after yourself.
When you go too long without texting back.
When you try to one-up his pain.
When you can’t come to a decision about what to eat or what to watch.
When you tell little white lies to make him feel better.
When you take hours to get ready.
When you claim you’re fine even though something is clearly bothering you.
When you make big decisions without consulting him first.