Have you ever wondered why you are not able to find love? Love needs work, and love needs you to be open to change. You too can succeed in love if you do not let your mistakes from the past and the fears of the future hold you back. Let us all succeed in love in the new year.
Aries, you are always rushing, competing and chasing the thrill. The chase is always more fun for you, but you have to allow yourself to slow down and enjoy the catch and take the time to know the one you want to love. It is okay for you to chill and enjoy the moment while maintaining the thrill. You get bored too easily, but you need to grow up and choose someone who helps you to be stable.
Taurus, you need to let go of all the old grudges and hatred from past relationships. You may be too negative because you got emotionally attached to the wrong people. Try to give a chance to those who match their actions to their words. Learn to be positive to find your emotional rock. You are needy, but someone will take care of you the way you want.
Gemini, you think you will never be able to find that one person to love forever, and that is becoming your self-fulfilling prophecy. You want to find that one person who can be your everything while believing that it is not real. Stop aiming for something too high and believing that does not exist, it is too conflicting. Step down a notch. You can find love — it does exist.
Cancer, you fall too fast and you give your everything too quickly. You also need to let go of the fantasies of your ex. If you truly want to find love, you need to say goodbye to your past and move forward. Give it time to build trust and take the time to get to know someone before you fall in love with them. Patience is key.
Leo, you know what you want, and you know what you are looking for, but you seem to not care what other people want or what they are looking for. You must realize that love is between two people and not just about what you want — it is not always about you. Learn to pay attention to other people’s wants and let someone else be the center of attention for once.
Virgo, you are too set in your ways and your lifestyle, so it is hard for you to find someone. You tend to find something wrong with everyone you meet, hence you push them away before you really get to know them. Do something you normally wouldn’t do and spend the time to get to know someone before dismissing them.
Libra, you do not let yourself be vulnerable and tend to close yourself off when love comes to you. You spend too much time being the life of the party and dazzling everyone with your charisma that you hide your true self from that someone special. Show who you are under all that magic, and someone will find the real magic inside you.
Scorpio, you take too long to let go of past relationships and plotting revenge that you do not notice your true soulmate is right in front of you. You have a hard time finding love because you want someone who can take care of you emotionally and someone you can completely trust. Don’t look for your future mate with the hazy ex-glasses, because all you will see is flaws. You can find the passion you dream about in real life.
You fall in love quickly and want to travel the world and frolic, and the moment it gets challenging, you want to end it and run away. Love is more than the first stages of passion. You have to accept that staying with the one you love takes work and time and that it won’t always go your way. You will find someone who is stable yet keeps your mind guessing. Be a little more flexible.
Capricorn, you are too serious — you know it is important to work hard to succeed in life and you think if you have fun, you will falter. You need to find someone who will continue to motivate you to work hard but also remind you to learn to be spontaneous and have fun. It is okay to be silly occasionally. Life should not be all about just work or play — you can have both.
You are a bit unconventional; you think that finding love will make you lose who you are. It is possible to maintain your autonomy while being in a relationship. You have to realize that you will not lose your core just because you meet someone else. When you find that someone, you will question how you could go this long without that someone. That nontraditional person is there for you.
You need to put yourself out there and let your guard down. Just because someone hurt you in the past does not mean every new person will hurt you, but that also does not mean no one will ever hurt you again. You want someone to value your creative and sensitive side. You may think you are being safe, but you are keeping yourself lonely by not opening yourself up to love. Put yourself out in the world — you will not regret it.