Lack of self-esteem? Find out how to awaken it and make it grow according to your zodiac sign.
Every person in order to live a full and fulfilling life needs certain things, among these a really indispensable one is self-esteem without which no existence can be defined as completely complete. Having confidence in oneself, in fact, leads to making the right decisions, coming forward, to seize the opportunities that life puts before us. Shyness, hesitation, and fear of failure are just small shadows that do not threaten to limit or block any single action. Without a good dose of self-esteem, even finding love can be difficult, because if we are convinced that we are worthless, how will others notice us and fall in love with us? As with many other aspects of the personality of each of us, the stars affect at least in part the opinion we have of us and if much of the “blame” comes from wrong teachers, parents who have not given the right directions and accidents along the way. who have put doubt on our path, here the stars can come to our aid by showing us an alternative way to follow in order to awaken or strengthen the latent self-esteem in each of us. So today, after seeing, we will find out what to do to achieve greater self-esteem that guarantees us the right place in the world.
Self-esteem, the advice of the stars for each zodiac sign
Aries – Choosing the right goals to pursue
Your being always in the race leads you to often find yourself competing even for “races” that don’t interest you that much. This can result in a certain loss of interest resulting in a slowdown in intent and willpower in pursuing them. All of this wouldn’t be a big problem if it weren’t for the fact that at the end of the year you always find yourself with many unfulfilled goals and all with a sense of inconclusiveness that, of course, does not help your self-esteem. To ensure that others continue to support your outings and to be yourself to believe in them, you must try to choose only those that can stimulate you to the point of being sure you want to carry them to the end. In this way, when looking back you will see only goals achieved and achieved, you will feel the satisfaction for which you started everything rise, feeling also the self-esteem rise. A priceless feeling that is really worth trying.
Taurus – By putting yourself out there
True, the most important thing for you is to always be able to stay within a certain comfort zone. Relaxing and enjoying moments of relaxation to spend with the people you love is the thing you care about the most and for which you tend to work hard every day. This, however, often leads you not to put yourself out there, thus avoiding situations that while on the one hand may seem tiring or avoidable, on the other hand they would be able to offer you an injection of confidence and self-esteem. By stubbornly staying away from new things, you risk limiting your ambitions and feeling less and less at ease in the middle of the world. What you should do, therefore, is to push yourself a few steps further, set goals to reach and make an effort to do it and this even if, by doing so, you risk compromising your routine a little. The feeling of well-being that can derive from it,
Gemini – Accepting others for who they are
Let’s face it, self-esteem, of course, you do not lack. The curiosity you have towards the world and the desire to always have new experiences make you a dynamic person and perfectly capable of dealing with the world. Perhaps, however, behind your reticence in accepting opinions different from yours or the simple differences that may exist between you and others, they are the symptom of something bigger as a sort of underlying insecurity that sometimes threatens to come outside making you feel threatened. Since by nature you are always in action, the only extra step you can take is to learn to accept others without fearing that they express opinions different from you and, why not, also accepting any criticism.
Cancer – Learning to give without asking for anything in return
Your self-esteem is generally quite developed, making life pretty easy for you to manage. Problems arise when affections are involved, your true Achilles heel. Your need to feel recognized and appreciated, in fact, leads you to feel a great disappointment when this does not happen and, although your first reaction is always to blame others, inside you you cannot help but wonder if you have something wrong or if others fail to love you for some particular reason, all with an obvious drop in self-esteem. The truth is that others love and seek you but can sometimes feel limited by your ways. To prevent this from happening you just have to learn not to expect anything in return. So you will know that when someone shows you they love you it is simply because they feel it and this will be a great way for you to rekindle your self-esteem. Seeing is believing.
Leo – Remembering to always keep yourself humble
Your self-esteem is such that you could distribute it for free to the rest of the world. Rather, your problem is quite the opposite and concerns your lack of empathy towards others. Often, in fact, you tend to feel superior or treat others with disdain and this could create problems in relationships, leading you over time to feel you lack something. This happens mainly because your need for recognition makes you rather dependent on the judgment of others that would fail if you were alone. Better therefore to try a different approach, able to make you feel at the top without diminishing others. This way you will all be happy.
Virgo – By Stopping Settling
Although to others you may appear to be a person full of self, the truth is that deep down you feel really insecure. This obviously depends on your low self-esteem which largely depends on your ultra-critical spirit and often turned not only to others but also to herself. How to solve? First of all by learning to forgive the mistakes of others, because in this way you will learn to look at your work with different eyes. The rest is all a matter of exercise. Starting to say beautiful words, to look for the positive aspects of oneself and to love oneself are essential steps to increase self-esteem. True, it seems like a difficult mission but you will find that once you start, stopping will be even more difficult.
Libra – Learning to take a stand
From a certain point of view, your self-esteem goes hand in hand with the impression you can give of yourself to others. For this reason you are always attentive to your physical appearance, also taking care to take care of your ways to the maximum, which you always try to keep moderate and calm in order to give an idea of elegance. Unfortunately for you, aesthetics are not everything and to be able to feel confident in your means you also need to work on your way of being. A good way to start? Try making some decisions, which is often too difficult for you. Doing so will help you, not only to get what you really like more easily but also to affirm yourself in situations and to feel more proud and more confident. You will see that once you start, the hardest thing will be to stop.
Scorpio – Starting to compare yourself to others
Your way of feeling and living things has always been very complex, much more than it is for others. Often looking ahead to the rest of the people you know, you find it difficult to share your thoughts because you know they may not be understood until much later. This often makes you closed and sometimes mysterious. An aspect that gives you a certain charm but which, in fact, isolates you. It follows that your self-esteem is limited and unable to grow and this, if basic, already has problems in this regard can make it even more difficult to deal with. From today, therefore, try to open yourself more to the outside world, learning to express your thoughts. Sometimes a confrontation that has gone wrong is better than stubborn silence. This will make you more human in the eyes of others and gradually give you more confidence. Because, it is true, you may not be understood but the fact remains that by expressing yourself you are affirming your right to think differently and to simply be who you are. Time, then, will do the rest.
Sagittarius – Realizing that your way of being is not transferable
Self-esteem is not a problem for you who have always been a sunny person, positive and aware of their possibilities. Ironically, your problem is others that you often tend to see as an extension of you, so much so that you are unable to accept or understand when they appear different. The truth is, if you have a way of doing things that works great for you, that doesn’t mean it has to be the same for others. Each person has a path of his own and no one should interfere, even if to bring about improvements, provided that this is obviously not required. In order not to risk damaging your self-esteem, therefore, what you have to do is limit yourself in pouring on others expectations related to your way of being, making yourself more empathetic and understanding. In this way,
Capricorn – Striving to love yourself more for who you are
You generally don’t have self-esteem issues, what can bother you is the way you manage it. The confidence you have in yourself, in fact, goes hand in hand with the goals you achieve at work. Without results, therefore, you end up thinking that you are worthless. Now, if feeling galvanized by your successes is more than normal, basing your self-esteem on them alone is not. An error every now and then, in fact, is more than normal and it is by believing in oneself in the hardest moments that one can hope to move forward, taking the right steps towards professional and personal affirmation. Before evaluating yourself as your own boss, then, you should make an effort to observe yourself as a person and learn to love yourself for it.
Aquarius – Getting involved in the world around you
Your wit and your way of looking at the world allow you to keep your self-esteem high. However, this is true from a point of view strictly linked to intelligence and personal abilities. To be sure of oneself, however, it takes a lot more. For example, it takes the human side that is often lacking in you. In need of your space, in fact, you tend too often to isolate yourself by setting aside human relationships, even important ones. This prevents you from having a healthy confrontation, which is essential to fully affirm your self-esteem. From today, therefore, your daily exercise should be to get closer to the outside world, giving more time to loved ones and deliberately seeking confrontation. At first it may seem like a waste of time and a somewhat difficult activity. Once you have learned, however,
Pisces – Using your innate empathy towards yourself
The empathy you have towards others, the often explosive feelings and your way of estranging yourself from reality make you like a being outside the world and outside the box. If in the eyes of others this makes you appear as a person at times whimsical and particularly creative – which in fact you are – on the other hand they often make you insecure and prey to anxiety. To remedy this, try to exercise your innate empathy towards yourself as well. In fact, by loving and accepting yourself in toto, your self-esteem will also be positively affected and over time you will learn to move forward with more confidence, discovering how to transform your weaknesses into true strength.