YOUR WAY OF BEING WHICH FOR OTHERS IS A DEFECT

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Find out what the way of being is that is also your biggest flaw. The answer of the stars according to your zodiac sign.

Each of us has strengths and weaknesses. Ways of being and doing that are a predominant feature and that at the same time create many problems in the life of a relationship. Because when it comes to dealing with others, there are attitudes that can be difficult to make understood. And while they sound like normal to us, for most people they can be hard to bear.

Today, therefore, after having seen what each zodiac sign is good with others, we will discover which way of creating the most problems in social life. An aspect that, of course, we will look at from an astrological point of view. Are you ready?

The way of being that is your biggest flaw

Aries – Being impulsive
If in some ways your acting quickly can be seen as a virtue, for many others it represents a defect that can even create problems with others. Being impulsive, in fact, prevents you from stopping to reflect and understand situations well before deciding how to deal with them. It is therefore a way of being that in the long run can create more problems than anything else. Especially when it leads you to make decisions that can turn out to be wrong. Moreover, precisely about people, it is good to always keep in mind that judging others too quickly, ends up ruining relationships that could also turn out to be special. Much better to learn to think more calmly.

Taurus – Your Being Possessive
When dealing with others, you get very emotional. This often leads you to be more possessive than you think. A way of doing that is if in small doses can be flattering, when it becomes excessive it can lead to disagreements and tensions of various kinds. The thing obviously becomes even more difficult to manage when a romantic relationship is involved. In that case, in fact, the best thing to do is to learn self-control and try to find a way to mediate between reason and the need to control the other person. A problem that, if you decide to deal with it properly, will be easier and easier to manage, improving your relationship with others.

Gemini – Changing Your Mind Often
Even if your dual being precedes you when you become too much you end up exasperating those around you. This gets worse when regardless of what you expect to be heard in every single change of opinion. Learning to think well about your every choice and then expressing only those you are most convinced of could be a start. The alternative is obviously to stay as you are and keep only those who know how to understand and appreciate you beyond those who can be perceived as defects. After all, you certainly don’t miss the company.

Cancer – Being Touchy
Let’s face it, if you want to look for your biggest flaw, this is your being touchy. Although you are moody by nature, in fact, this aspect is almost perceived as a trait that can give you a certain charm. This is not the case when it comes to dealing with others in a fluctuating mood. Whether it’s an opinion you don’t like or the ways of those around you, your touchy ways aren’t always well received. Moderating this aspect of yourself a little might then help. A choice that would help you, without a doubt, get along better with everyone.

Leo – The delusions of grandeur You need
to always be the center of attention, you are more or less understood and accepted from this point of view. What creates problems in relationships and is therefore perceived as a flaw is your always wanting to appear the best. For many, in fact, your outings are often seen as delusions of grandeur that are difficult to manage. A problem that you could solve, or at least diminish, by making an effort to leave some space for others as well. In this way, in fact, you would still be able to express yourself without being too intrusive. This is a game of balance that once learned could really help you get more in touch with those around you.

Virgo – Being too precise
Well yes, although for you precision is an immeasurable value, for others it can represent a defect that is difficult to bear. To be honest, this happens especially when, rather than helping, you limit yourself to criticizing and judging the actions of others. In such contexts, your precision is in fact jarring and at times annoying. A different way to manage it could therefore be to actively work to help those in difficulty and all without making them weigh it. Your message will come through louder, and you will likely get far more recognition than you have by limiting yourself to the words.

Libra – Vanity
While finding fault with yourself is often difficult, some feel that you are too vain. True, beauty is an aspect that is part of your life and that you continually seek to live at your best. However, when this concerns your person or what concerns you, it can come to others as a form of vanity. Leaving aside the fact that what others think does not matter, if you aim to make yourself understood more you can always transform your need for beauty by helping others to improve themselves and the world around them. A way of sharing something that you are very good at and that once you find a way could be a reason for growth for you too.

Scorpio – Your thirst for vengeance
There is likely not a single person in the world unaware of your being vindictive. Which for many is also and above all your biggest flaw. A defect that is seen in this way more than anything else because it inspires a certain fear in those around you. And above all in those who know they do not always act at their best towards you. However, it is something that is too much a part of you and therefore would be too difficult to change. On the other hand, you can always learn to manage it differently, becoming even more subtle in the methods and making sure that others do not get scared. Unless, of course, they have not turned against you. In that case, their thoughts will be of no importance to you.

Sagittarius – The need for freedom
You are a free spirit and this is often seen as virtue as well as a feature that you cannot do without. When you are involved in an important relationship, however, this way leading you to need spaces that are often difficult for others to understand. Thus, your thirst for freedom turns into a burden on those around you. Managing their expressions and not making them become a burden for those around you would certainly be a good way to improve the situation. Especially when it comes to taking time just for yourself. Knowing how to communicate is the right key to get started.

Capricorn – The Control Craze
For you who is a born perfectionist, always having everything under control is the norm. When other people are involved, however, managing things can be much more difficult. The trick is learning to let things go more. A choice that in addition to improving the relationship with others will lead you to better experience contexts that today you face with a certain tension. After all, there is nothing more liberating than learning to live life as it comes without having to engineer constant tricks to get others to do or say what you want. Sometimes, after all, others can even surprise you.

Aquarius – Being unpredictable
You’re not being in the least predictable is not always seen as a virtue. For many people, in fact, you are selfish and full of you. Aspects that are not entirely true but that sometimes stand out more than others. In fact, to live better you need to be yourself. Doing so, however, must always take into consideration the people around you. Only in this way, in fact, will you be able to live better relationships. Which will allow you to connect more with those around you.

Pisces – Sensitivity
Yes, for some, your being sensitive is a flaw. In general, these are people who are not used to feeling empathy and therefore cannot understand your way of being. In other cases, your sensitivity precludes certain goals, ending up reflecting on those around you as well. Making yourself a little stronger, then, might help. As long as you don’t change your way of being. In addition to being a defect (or to put it better) a limitation for some people, this is also one of your most precious qualities. And taking it forward, despite everything, will show courage and character. Things have always been a part of you.

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