“You can’t always be right!”
You need to be right all the time, and besides, you are as stubborn as a mule. When you argue about something, you just never let go.
It’s a great personality trait for leaders and those who pursue their dreams intensely, but when it comes to relationships, you’re tough to take.
Your ex had never dared to tell you that you can’t always be right. You argue over nothing, and you never let go.
“You are obsessed with the opinions of others”.
It’s not just Instagram and Facebook. It’s not just about the places you’ve been and your outfit for the day.
You are the type of person who fights for what she wants. You love the beautiful things in life, but you will work hard to achieve them.
What your ex has never dared to tell you is that sometimes you seem superficial. You care too much about what other people say about you and how they see you.
“You are overflowing with too many emotions.”
You are a person who tends to go from happiness to depression within minutes.
You are extremely emotionally unstable, and not all of the people around you can handle it.
You overreact because you overreact, and sometimes you are the reason why the situation you find yourself in seems even worse than it is.
What your ex didn’t dare tell you is that you care too much about yourself and your emotions. You neglect the feelings of others throughout.
“You defend yourself by being mean.”
You are too emotional and always take things too seriously. Every criticism you receive, you see it as a personal attack on you.
Because you take things too seriously, sometimes you end up being mean to people who don’t deserve it.
One of those people was your ex. When he was trying to help you by calling attention to something you probably did wrong or something you said, you were mean about it and hurt him.
You do this as a self-defense mechanism, disregarding the emotions of others.
“You have too big an ego!
You are very territorial, but when you are in a relationship it gets even worse. You get too needy, and that’s what drives your partner crazy.
You crave attention and have no idea what your partner needs.
What your partner dared not tell you is that you are not alone in this relationship. You are not the only one who needs and needs attention.
“You need to relax a bit!”
Sometimes your need for control is overstated. You are the type of person who enjoys being responsible for everything that is going on around them, and you can’t stand it any other way. You thirst for an order of which you are the master.
Your ex didn’t dare tell you that your controlling nature had made him leave the relationship and that sometimes you should have relaxed a bit. You have to let things take their course.
“You can’t change someone to become what you want.”
You are looking for absolute perfection. From the smallest details to the big issues in your life, you want everything to be perfect.
The catch is, you expect people around you to act flawlessly when you yourself don’t live up to the standards.
What your ex dared not tell you is that you can’t change someone to live by your rules and your standards were ridiculously high. No one can live up to this.
“Let go of some things.”
You are the type of person who can hold a grudge forever. If someone treads on you, you can never forgive them.
You’re stuck in the past, of what hurt you, and you just can’t let go.
What your ex dared not tell you is that if you carry on living in the past, you will become a jealous and bitter person.
“Your humor isn’t always funny.”
You are known as the king of sarcasm and not everyone likes that kind of humor. You joke at the expense of others, and for you, that’s completely normal.
But some people don’t understand that kind of humor, and it hurts them when you say something mean.
What your ex dared not tell you is that your words hurt. And while you laugh, some cry from the inside. Try to understand that your humor isn’t for everyone.
”You lack imagination. ”
Capricorns like to play it safe. They don’t want to splurge because they don’t like standing out from the crowd. You’re motivated, you work hard, but the thing is, you’re not taking risks.
What your ex didn’t dare tell you is that you always play it safe, and that is boring. You should be doing more exciting and unpredictable things in life.
“You are too obsessed with how you look in the eyes of others.”
You are too obsessed with validation. You want confirmation that what you are doing is right.
Sure, you’re going to accomplish great things because you’re smart and go-getter, but the problem is, you’re not doing it because of yourself, but because of others.
What your ex dared not tell you is that you need constant approval and validation that what you are doing is right.
“I need someone with two feet on the ground.”
You live in your own world. You like daydreaming, art, and spirituality, but these things don’t often bring food to the table.
Your spirituality and free spirit make you seem lazy, but you are not. You just have to make an effort to prove it to others.
What your ex didn’t dare tell you is that he didn’t feel financially and materially secure with you because you seemed a little too free-spirited.