By discovering what makes him feel insecure,
you will have the chance to make things right and give him the feeling that he is loved.
Aries(March 21 – April 20)
You like to take on leadership roles and appear to be very independent and confident. Although these are all extraordinary qualities, they could also be the cause of your partner’s insecurities.
Men like to feel useful and needed. Your confident attitude and innate ability to lead can make you feel that you have no place for him in your life. And it was probably these qualities that attracted him to you when he met you.
It may also make you feel useless, and this is one of the worst feelings anyone could ever experience.
If you realize your partner’s insecurities, speak honestly with him. Tell him how much you love and appreciate him and that you want him forever in your life. He needs to hear those words from you!
Taurus(April 21 – May 21)
You can be overprotective and possessive at times. Possessiveness in a relationship can easily come to the surface when you are insecure and do not trust yourself. If you have a partner who is also insecure, this could be the recipe for disaster.
Your partner may show insecurities by being as possessive as you are, which creates an unhealthy and codependent relationship.
If you trust your partner, loosen your belt! And if you don’t trust him, then why are you with someone you can’t trust?
Try to give up your own insecurities, and your partner will see this and may follow suit.
Gemini(May 22 – June 21)
Your zodiac sign is known for being undecided. This can cause a lot of uncertainty in your partner. One day you may give him so much love and affection, and the next day you can barely send him a single message.
The indecision and the fact that you change your attitude so quickly can make the person next to you extremely confused and wonder if you really want to be with him.
You are also very sociable and like to be around people. Although it is important to go out with others and spend time separately, make sure you pay equal attention to your partner. He may feel neglected, which causes him feelings of insecurity.
Cancer(June 22 – July 21)
You are emotional, but you often keep those feelings to yourself. Sharing your personal life with someone else can be extremely inconvenient and difficult for you.
Your fears of opening up to someone and your ability to shut yourself in may cause your life partner insecurity. You may feel that he did something wrong that led you to turn to silence.
Yes, it’s hard, but opening up to your boyfriend or spouse will make you feel closer to him. The relationship will be stronger and you will make him feel so special knowing that he is one of the people you can trust to tell him the most intimate feelings.
Leo(July 22 – August 22)
Your attitude can be debilitating, while you expect a lot from your partner. If your boyfriend or husband goes to great lengths and does not receive the same in return, his insecurities may begin to arise.
You will feel that you don’t care enough about the relationship and that you are trying too hard to make it work on your own. Start showing your care by making him feel as special and loved as he makes you feel.
If you start working hard, he will see you immediately and the relationship will be more harmonious. No one wants to feel that he is the one who makes every effort to make something work. You have to work together as a team.
Virgo(August 23 – September 22)
You like things done in a certain way and you expect everyone to be like you. Your partner and you are not the same person. Don’t expect him to always want the same things and act like you.
Your partner may feel judged by you all the time and that can make him very insecure. Nobody likes to be told that he is doing something wrong every day. Don’t be too critical of your partner!
Accept him for who he is, because we are all different and our differences are what make us unique. If you notice that you are starting to criticize, learn to control yourself. This practice of yours is slowly beginning to cause him to lose confidence. He will not want to be with someone who constantly puts him in the corner, learns to praise him and bring positivity in the relationship.
Libra(September 23 – October 22)
You know best how to hold a grudge. Resentment is very unhealthy. They can lead to anger, negativity, and petty attitude. If your partner did something that upset you and you talked about it, move on.
If there was something really important that really affected you, either take some time to think or speak openly and from the heart. Keeping resentment will only make matters worse. You and your partner will not be able to overcome the problem and it will continue to generate more.
Your partner will become insecure because of one mistake he made that made you so vengeful. It is important to know when to stop, otherwise you will end up breaking up.
Scorpio(October 23 – November 21)
You’re a mysterious person sometimes. Even if you don’t hide anything, it may seem like you’re doing something suspicious. Your partner may feel this way and become insecure.
A million thoughts might cross his mind. Thoughts that are most likely negative and will lead to uncertainty. If you act in secret, the first thing you might think is that there is someone else in your life.
The thought of cheating on him will get stuck in his mind and the tension in the relationship will start to appear.
Try to be more open with him and make sure you have those difficult conversations when any of you are disappointed in something.
Sagittarius(November 22 – December 21)
You can’t be tamed. You don’t like to feel trapped and you hate being constrained. You need to be free and able to do your own thing. Your partner may not look like you at first and this is where the uncertainties come from.
They may think you’re not interested in him, when in fact you don’t really like being too dependent on anyone else. If he’s a sticky guy, your extroverted ways will just make him want to cling even tighter to you.
You are also known for not having a thought filter. You say things as they please, whenever you feel like it, and no matter how ugly those words may be. Your words can hurt your partner and cause him to lose his self-confidence.
Try to present what you think in a gentler and more beautiful way and approach any expectations regarding the relationship at the beginning, so that your partner does not feel left out that you don’t care about him.
Capricorn(December 22 – January 19)
You are stubborn and sometimes you want to look like you know everything. These things can make your partner feel that he is not as smart as you. It will make him insecure, because he will feel that he is not helping you at all.
He will feel that you already know everything, so you have nothing to learn from him or anything to say. Any relationship teaches you new things and it is very important to achieve this.
It’s okay to make mistakes sometimes. Don’t let stubbornness stop you from recognizing when you do it. Most of the time, wanting to prove that you are right at all costs is not worth long and meaningless quarrels.
Aquarius(January 20 – February 18)
You are an independent person. Unlike other relationships, you never leave your partner behind. Why ask someone to do something for you when you can do it yourself? Your independence can make your partner feel like you don’t want him around, and that can make him insecure.
He will feel that you do not need him and that makes him cling even more to the relationship, be suffocating and seek attention. His sticky attitude will start to annoy you and can be the cause of many quarrels. In this case, the only thing you don’t have to do is be cold and distant.
He will insist that something is wrong and will stress you out with questions until he gets answers. He will interrogate you as if you were a murderer, because he is insecure, and you do not help him, but challenge him even more.
Be open and honest about what you want from this relationship so that none of you end up disappointed.
Pisces(February 19 – March 20)
You know how to play the role of victim in any quarrel. This makes your partner always seem the only one to blame. He is the one who takes most of the fists in battle.
Remember it takes two for tango. Sometimes you could be just as guilty of something as he is. If you constantly play the role of the victim, he will become insecure, because you make him feel that he is always doing something wrong.
Don’t be afraid to admit your own mistakes. He will appreciate that you take responsibility when things go wrong. Don’t let the burden fall on him all the time!