Stephan Chbosky wrote, “We accept the love we think we deserve” so let me tell you that you deserve the best kind of love and the healthiest of relationships. While sometimes relationships aren’t always easy, there are certain ways to notice if they are healthy. Keep reading to find out how to know you are in a healthy relationship, according to your Zodiac.
(March 21-April 19)
As an Aries, you have a bright, energetic, and fiery personality. Sometimes it is hard for everyone to easily understand your antics. You will know you are in a healthy relationship when your partner wants to go along with your spontaneous and adventurous ideas. You have a very strong desire to lead and take control. However, this can sometimes cause you to be a bit hot headed. When you are in a healthy relationship, your partner will help you keep your cool and stay grounded.
(April 20-May 20)
As a Taurus, you are very organized and observant, but can also be a bit lazy and prone to procrastination. While you are indulgent and creative, you will know you are in a healthy relationship when your partner simply wants to spend time with you, even if that means staying in and relaxing a few nights. Your partner will want to put you first and will validate your need for security and compassion.
(May 21-June 20)
As a Gemini, you are thoughtful, compelling, and bubbly. You will know you are in a healthy relationship when your partner actively works to cater to your love of conversation. Your partner may be more quiet, but they will respect your personality and will want to freely think and dream with you. Your partner will build off of your creative and mindful energy and will actively work to understand your compelling thoughts.
(June 21-July 22)
As a Cancer, you will know you are in a healthy relationship when your partner starts to feel like family. You are incredibly caring and nurturing, but you also need your partner to reciprocate this care as well. When you are in a healthy relationship, your partner will indulge in your passions and will be able to relate to you on a deeper level. Your partner will want to stay in and hang out, but will also pump you up and entice you to try new things.
(July 23-August 24)
As a Leo, you are idealistic, affectionate, and a bit insecure at times. You will know you are in a healthy relationship when your partner loves you and cares for you during both your good and bad times. While you are an independent person, you need someone who cares for you and offers you a sense of security. When you are in a healthy relationship, your partner will encourage your fun-loving side, but also understand your emotional and insecure moments.
(August 23-September 22)
As a Virgo, you are a bit guarded and focused on perfection. When you are in a healthy relationship, your partner will be patient and open to your perfectionist behaviors. They will provide you with steady love and support, which will allow you to open up and let them into your heart. You will know when you are in a healthy relationship because your partner will appreciate you and will put aside time and effort to ease whatever worries you may have.
(September 23-October 22)
As a Libra, you will know you are in a healthy relationship when your partner will magically seem like Prince Charming. You are very easy going, loving, and romantic, thus you need someone who wants to sweep you off of your feet and prioritize your interests. Your partner will strive to match your vigor for life and will also want to accompany you to many social functions.
(October 23-November 21)
As a Scorpio, you are a wildly confusing creature. You can be intense, funny, stubborn, enraged, and impassioned all at the same time. When you are in a healthy relationship, your partner will love you at all times, even if you have crazy emotional surges. Your partner will know when to give you your space and when to pull you back in. Most importantly though, your partner will have a ton of patience and will be eager to wait for you to mellow out, no matter how long that may be.
(November 22-December 21)
As a Sagittarius, you are prone to adventures and exploration. You will know when you are in a healthy relationship because your partner will not only feed into your explorative habits, but will also give you the freedom and independence to roam when you desire. Your partner will be just as independent as you are and will either give you your space or just as easily accompany you.
(December 22-January 19)
As a Capricorn, you are reserved and a bit cautious. When you are in a healthy relationship, your partner will provide you with endless love and appreciation. Your partner will understand you as you are and if anything helps you learn to relax every now and again. At the end of the day, you appreciate familiarity and comfort. In your relationship, you can still be serious and orderly, but your partner will also help you enjoy life.
(January 20-February 18)
As an Aquarius, you need someone who will indulge in your intelligence and creativity. When you are in a healthy relationship, your partner will make you feel valued, smart, and understood. Your partner will love that you are a dreamer and will often want to dream up things together. In this relationship, your intelligence will not go unnoticed as you will be loved and cherished for your amazing mind.
(February 19-March 20)
As a Pisces, you are a dreamer and a lover of affection. However, you often get stuck in your own head. When you are in a serious relationship, your partner will be able to brighten you up when you get lost in your thoughts. Your partner will want to get to know you and all of the crazy things that go on in your mind. Furthermore, your partner will accept and appreciate your love and will offer the same in return.