Horoscope: Find out the biggest mistake you make when choosing the person to be with.
It is well known that finding a soul mate is a difficult undertaking for anyone. Sometimes, however, even ways of doing things get in the way that, without our realizing it, push us to distance ourselves even further from the goal. An example? Often in choosing the person to be with, one is influenced by wrong ways of thinking. Some of them largely depend on your zodiac sign.
After having seen which are the worst couples of the zodiac and which are the most sincere zodiac signs , today we will therefore see what is the biggest mistake we make when we decide the person to be with. For a clearer picture, it is advisable to also check the profile of your ascendant. Are you ready?
Here’s what you’re wrong about when deciding who to be with
Aries – You often make rash choices
Haste is a basic component of your way of being. However, if on the one hand this can help you be more dynamic and make your decisions rather quickly, in the sentimental field it can create serious evaluation problems. Usually, in fact, you don’t usually get to know the person you like, throwing yourself headlong into a relationship that almost always ends up disappointing you. What to do then? The solution lies in starting with the handbrake or at least without having engaged the fourth gear. By getting to know the person you like better, it will be easier to understand if they are truly compatible with who you are. Of course, maybe this will prevent you from flirting but doing so will also make you mentally more clear-headed and trained to recognize the right person, when they come across you.
Taurus – You rely too much on appearances
True, in life you are one who has quite clear ideas and who knows what he wants to achieve. This leads you to make every decision sensibly and with no margin for error. Love, however, is not like a job to be delivered or a mathematical calculation. Like any other feeling, it is irrational, impetuous and above all unpredictable. This means that choosing someone just because they appear to be the way you want them to, does not mean that it makes your relationship evolve in a positive way. Of course, you know well that you want someone with clear ideas about the future, maybe good-looking and with a good position, but you can’t just welcome people who match these characteristics into your life. What matters is to follow one’s heart even if at times it makes unexpected turns leading us towards people who apparently do not seem so suitable for us. Experience, live the feelings and only then will you be able to understand what you really want. And if the story goes wrong, don’t think about what others might say. Live your life as if it were a book or one of those movies that you love so much and, in the end, however it goes, it will be something worth trying.
Gemini – Choose people who are too different from you
Your biggest enemy is boredom, we know. But that doesn’t mean choosing someone who in your eyes can make your life more exciting. To stay in a relationship, it is important that there are many other elements, such as attraction, feeling and the desire to know each other and be together. Furthermore, again for that little detail called compatibility, it would be at least essential to choose someone who resembles you or who at least partially shares your way of seeing things. Yes, opposites attract, it is often true but have you ever considered that if something really does not appeal to you, it is not the case to choose a person who lives on that instead? Sometimes the simplest way is also the best. As for boredom, remember that with love every little thing becomes exciting and pleasant,
Cancer – Often choose people you think are “safe”
Love is very important to you, nevertheless you also know that you are a terribly jealous person and sometimes to try to solve this problem, you tend to choose people who you think can make you feel comfortable. Sometimes you happen to prefer someone who you think is not so charming that you can have who knows how many opportunities, others who are apparently calm. Guess what? Your jealousy will always be lurking and although it is right to work with it to try to diminish it, while you do it it would be better to choose who really makes your heart beat. In this way it will be easier to bear the impetuous feelings that often assail you and that many times if you focus on people who are not for you, they become just something exhausting and able to take all the poetry out of your relationship.
Leo – Consider the other based on how much he can overshadow you
. Okay, being the center of attention is vital for you. When choosing who to be with, however, don’t do it thinking about how much he might take your place on the throne. Choosing someone who makes you feel special is important but it is also important to start a story with those who consider themselves to be equal. True, sometimes your peer might even steal your place, but in love, such details shouldn’t matter. Not to mention that a healthy rivalry could make your life more exciting. Besides, if there is someone so special that he can surpass you, so much the better to have him on the team, right?
Virgo – Choose someone only for how serious they appear
True, seriousness is one of the things you care about the most and that makes serious people like you too. But that doesn’t mean that every serious person is right for you. Before launching into a relationship and thinking that it is forever it is better then to try to know better those around you and understand if besides being both serious you have other things in common. It may surprise you how sometimes someone other than us can be just the other half of the apple. Try not to consider a single parameter to find love and remember that you are serious enough for the whole couple. Who knows that letting yourself go and doing a few less calculations for once isn’t quite the right choice to find the right person for you.
Libra – You are looking for people who are similar to you
Your way of life means that you can feel great even alone, to the point of preferring a single life rather than with someone who is not for you. Unfortunately, however, this way of thinking leads you to seek perfection to the point of ending up being alone or choosing only people who you think are similar to you and therefore free from ways of being that may bother you. A mistake you often run into because in the end having someone who looks like you ends up depriving you of the stimuli that you could have instead from diversity. A problem that you realize every time but that for some strange reason you are unable to solve, ending up repeating it every single time you meet someone and that, almost without realizing it, you start studying it in search of similarities.
Scorpio – You often seek more passion than you can handle
For you, love is made of passion and heartbeat. This leads you to look for someone who is able to make your heart tremble and always give you new emotions. A need that drives you to always look for mysterious or problematic people in some way. Too bad that if on the one hand you yearn for complicated situations and able to make you feel always alive, on the other hand you end up stressing yourself when you find yourself involved in complicated stories or where you can’t live the relationship as you would like. In short, we need a change in this sense and a greater awareness of what you are willing to endure in order to have your special moments and what it is preferable to let go in order to live a story that also knows how to give you that sense of peace that, under below, you don’t mind that much.
Sagittarius – Choose people who fit your lifestyle
Your problem in love is always the same, which is your need for freedom. Even if you like the idea of finding someone similar to you, you always end up choosing people who let themselves be guided by your choices and who don’t make too many stories during your moments of leisure. This leads you to often feel alone and in a dead-end relationship where the other is unable to understand you or give you the stimulation you would need. A difficult situation to solve if not upstream and that is by changing your criteria of choice, coming to understand that if you want euphoria you have to find people who embrace life as you do and not those who, instead, are simply willing to accept your way of to be.
Capricorn – You are only looking for strict people
Your life is made up of commitments and self-control and this all too often leads you to choose people who are able to give you a sense of rigidity. Too bad that within a love story you need someone who is able to make you fly, to remind you that in life there are not only commitments and tasks but also moments to live peacefully and take care of yourself. An aspect that you miss only when you feel a close relationship that you have chosen yourself and that leads you to question yourself all too often about how the right person should be for you. The answer? It should simply be someone who makes you laugh, who gives you a sense of lightness and who, of course, gets your heart racing. As for rigidity,
Aquarius – Choose others thinking you can change them
Well yes, you who don’t love being told what to do or think, when you are looking for the right person, you always end up choosing who is your opposite, under the illusion of being able to change it in the course of your story. A completely wrong thought, especially because you lack the necessary patience to make others understand what you think and what you need. To be happy you should find someone similar to you, who knows how to understand and accept you as you are, also welcoming your moments of solitude and the need for spaces to live and manage as you prefer. Of course, realizing it is difficult but once you have taken this step, everything will be easier, leading you to find people who are more congenial to you.
Pisces – You follow the heart too much
Yes, it’s true, love makes the world go round and can often change things and people. But choosing someone based on your heart alone isn’t always a happy idea. Sometimes there are ways of being and values that are truly incompatible and capable of bringing out the worst in people. In a relationship you need understanding and empathy, the same ones you lavish in abundance at times even to those who would prefer a different and more detached attitude. The key to happiness? Try to understand and know the other even before questioning your heart. You will discover that love can be a lot but not everything and that even character affinities are essential to be able to be happy. You just need to find the right balance and, once you find it, everything will appear simpler.