Find out what attitude you should never have with people you care about based on their zodiac sign.
How much we care about someone, the last thing we want is to hurt them or make them feel bad. Unfortunately, however, even knowing ourselves well, can happen to inadvertently hurt others and all by simply saying or doing things in a completely spontaneous way. Although it is practically impossible to predict what can make those in front of us suffer, there are some details on which we can base ourselves to have at least a general idea. And one of these comes from the influence that the stars have on each of us. For this reason, today we will discover what is the attitude that can hurt those around us and that we should therefore absolutely avoid.
The attitude that hurts the various zodiac signs
Aries – Taking his ways for granted
Those born under the astrological sign of Aries like to feel original and unpredictable. For this reason, one of the things that make them sick is dealing with people who assume they know them enough to predict their thoughts and actions. Even more, they are negatively affected when they tend to take certain ways of doing things for granted. Regardless of whether they tend to repeat them or not, therefore, in order not to make them feel bad, it is important to consider each situation as a stand-alone situation and always act as if their possible reaction is not known at all.
Taurus – Prefer Someone Him
The natives of the astrological sign of Taurus love to feel the center of attention of the people they love. For this reason, letting them understand that they prefer someone over them is something that tends to hurt them deeply, making them jealous and in a bad mood. Regardless of the relationship, you have with them, it is therefore very important to always pay attention not to hurt them. And the only way to do this is to always treat them with the utmost importance. Furthermore, comparisons with third parties are to be abolished. Which they would never and in no case tolerate.
Gemini – Criticize them
Those born under the zodiac sign of Gemini are particularly touchy. For this reason, they tend to feel bad when they feel criticized. Although they are aware of their faults, they do not like someone to blame them. And when that happens they are really hurt. Also, being vindictive in their own way, they could end up breaking relationships, making things really difficult. If you have any notes to make, therefore, it is important to always find the right way to do it and talk to him privately. In fact, there is nothing worse than criticism received in public.
Cancer – Putting Them Out
The natives of the astrological sign of Cancer are extremely insecure people, especially when dealing with the people they care about. For this reason, they end up suffering easily in front of any form of rejection. In particular, if there is one thing they hate, it is being left out. This can happen in the face of a sudden change of plans, a no, or a decision taken without consulting them. The truth is that hurting them is really simple, which is why it is important to always go there with lead feet and think carefully before taking action. Because when they get angry, getting them back in a good mood is really hard.
Leo – Give more importance to someone else
Those born under the zodiac sign of Leo love to feel at the center of the world, especially when they are among people they consider friends. Seeing that someone suddenly gives importance to another person hurts them deeply, leading them to be extremely competitive. This obviously generates a change of mood on their part who tend to become aggressive too if they feel too much of a threat. To avoid hurting them, it is therefore important to make them understand that they are always considered important and that no one could equal them or, even worse, surpasses them in our eyes.
Virgo – Don’t Believe It
The natives of the Libra zodiac sign love to think they are indispensable to others. And this leads them to often make unsolicited judgments or give advice to anyone they find. Not listening to them or not believing what they say is something that hurts them and makes them sick. When it happens, in fact, they feel personally affected and come to fear that they are not worth enough. A thought that annoys them and that pushes them to act even aggressively. To get along with them and, above all, not to hurt them, it is therefore very important to always listen to them and make them understand that their opinion is always important and therefore it is always taken into great consideration.
Libra – Ignore them
Those born under the zodiac sign of Libra are used to being always taken into consideration by both friends and simple acquaintances. When they don’t, they suddenly feel hurt, especially if they don’t understand why. When dealing with them it is therefore very important to make them feel integrated and above all taken into consideration. Otherwise, they could take it personally and decide to leave without warning or take a standoffish attitude. Which can be really unpleasant when done by them.
Scorpio – Ignoring what they think
The natives of the zodiac sign of Scorpio are reserved people and rarely open to others. When they do, however, they need to feel accepted and wanted. This is why they don’t willingly accept that people they trust ignore what they think. An attitude that pushes them to take it. Which when it happens can culminate in their total estrangement or a need for revenge that sooner or later they will implement. Much better than avoiding ignoring them, especially if you have been lucky enough to get into the people they consider important.
Sagittarius – Don’t gratify them
Those born under the Sagittarius zodiac sign love to feel irreplaceable, which is why they are particularly sensitive to compliments. When they act by doing something that they consider positive without receiving at least a thank you, they end up taking it to heart, feeling bad, and starting to feel negative emotions towards those who have been guilty of such an action. In fact, it is very easy for many of their friendships to end up like this. And since they don’t usually make it clear when they’re expecting something, the best solution is to make them feel appreciated as often as possible.
Capricorn – Let them know they are wrong
The natives of the astrological sign of Capricorn love to always feel right. They do not accept failures and even in the face of a fait accompli, they persist in denying it even to themselves. Telling them that they did something wrong is therefore the best way to hurt them and to see them get defensive. A gesture that is best avoided as much as possible. The only right thing to do? Try to get them to come to a similar conclusion on their own (which is very difficult) by always showing themselves to be on their side. The only option that can not make them cross.
Aquarius – Teasing Them
Those born under the Aquarius zodiac sign don’t like to be challenged. For them, what they think and do is the fruit of what they are and for this reason, they do not allow anyone to judge them. Being made fun of for their way of being is therefore something that first of all annoys them and that makes them angry to the point of pushing them to end even important relationships. Because when they get involved, Aquarians can also be very touchy. Which always tends to complicate things.
Pisces – Ignore Them
The natives of the zodiac sign of Pisces are people who are always present and available to others. One thing they do with the heart and because they firmly believe in the mutual help they can do to each other. Making them feel left out and ignoring them is, therefore, something they can’t stand, and that makes them sick in the long run. When this happens, they end up closing in on themselves, re-evaluating the underlying relationship. A detail that can push them to break off relations forever or to seriously distance themselves. For this reason, if you have the opportunity to know them it is always better to consider them and never ignore them. If they decide to leave, in fact, it is really difficult for them to go back and their lack sooner or later would be felt heavily.