You just don’t give up, and a narcissist can easily drag you into their web of lies.
You let him apologize instead of gently pulling away and finding someone who truly deserves you.
Stop arguing with them, and go.
If you bite the hook, you’ll never get rid of them because they won’t let you go until they bleed your blood.
You don’t have time for mind games, and it’s not that easy to think of yourself as a jerk.
You don’t fall for stupid lies, even if the smartest you can get the better of you.
The truth is, you’re as stubborn as a donkey and it’s easy to get into an argument.
A narcissist knows how to take advantage of it. What they don’t know is that there are many ways that you can be stubborn.
When you decide not to react and shut up, even though the whole earth depends on your reaction, you won’t make a single sound.
And not responding, not reacting, is what drives a narcissist mad with rage.
You can completely rely on a narcissist. Let’s say it’s very easy to manipulate you.
When a narcissist is done with you, you end up hating yourself for letting them manipulate you like that.
But you have another side of yourself, and when you find yourself in this kind of situation, you have to use it.
Use that stubborn and cheeky side, be selfish enough, and think for yourself.
Being emotional Cancer is likely to try to deal with the narcissist like a project.
You think it needs fixing (and it needs it), but where you make a mistake is when you try to change it.
Narcissists cannot change, and you are doing no one, especially yourself, a favor if you try to make them what they are not.
You’re only likely to injure yourself, so let it go.
You are stubborn, and you don’t want to admit you’re wrong.
This is why you stay in a relationship with a narcissist for a lot longer than you should.
You don’t want to admit that falling in love with this person was a mistake.
You would rather suffer and be hurt than admit that your ego has just taken a hit.
Ultimately, your relationship will end, but there will be tears and pain because you didn’t end it sooner.
You’re not going to put up with anything at all. There is absolutely no chance that a Virgo will be played by anyone, even a narcissist.
He may cheat on you at first, but that will be the last thing he does.
Your precise planning and your need for order and tidying up in everyday life and in your love life will cause you to get rid of it for good, leaving you without consequences.
You are very emotional like Cancer, which makes you an easy target for narcissistic abuse.
Your biggest flaw – when it comes to narcissists, which usually is of value – is that you want to help everyone.
You are very compassionate. You want to listen to people when they have problems, and you would do anything to help them.
Narcissists take advantage of this because they mask their need, by the need for help from you.
And then they empty you dry; they use you completely.
Your ultimate goal is to take care of broken men and help them whether they like it or not and like it or not.
You won’t take a “no” for an answer, and once you take care of something, you make it the project of your life.
You are very passionate, and when you want something you don’t give up so easily.
There is only one problem with your plan that will cost you dearly, and that is that you cannot cure a narcissist.
It’s impossible. It’s not that you can’t do it, but, that no one else can.
You will try to prove to the narcissist that what they are doing is just not right and that it is not human to anyone.
Having said that, since they can’t feel compassion and don’t care how you feel, as long as they’re happy they won’t listen to you.
When you realize that you are playing a game that you cannot win, it will be best for him to stay out of your way.
You’re going to want revenge on him, and make him feel as much pain as yours.
You hate arguing, and you won’t let anyone piss you off.
You are the traditional type, but true to yourself.
When you set a goal, there is nothing and no one in this world that will put you off.
So when you realize that his behavior is not what you want to put up with for the rest of your life, you are going to be on a mission to break up and forget about him.
It won’t be easy to break up, let alone get over it.
But your determination and thirst for success will make you get over it and heal much faster than anyone else.
Dealing with a narcissist will not end well for you.
You’re a sensitive flower, and you take things too seriously, so when something really bad happens you fall apart.
In a relationship with a narcissist, you will suffer and you will not be able to recognize yourself.
You will lose your self-esteem and self-respect, and even when he leaves, you won’t be able to pull yourself together fast enough.
But, don’t worry, you’ll get your life back on track.
You’re giving a lot of second chances, which is a real problem when you’re dealing with a narcissist.
You are only making it easier for him to use you.
You believe his excuses, and you let him come back into your life.
You are lying to yourself that things are going to get better because you cannot accept that he is a manipulative bastard that you fell in love with.
Don’t blame yourself too much. They are artists when it comes to seduction and lies.