ASTROLOGY | THE MISCONCEPTION THAT OTHERS HAVE OF YOU
Find out what other people wrongly think about you based on your zodiac sign.
Each of us has personal characteristics that, even if more or less evident, define both the way of being and how it appears to others. Sometimes it is an image that corresponds fairly with reality, others of something distorted but which is perceived incorrectly due to the superficiality of the people. In any case, learning to know and understand others more is something that all of us should do. Not only to avoid errors of evaluation but also to establish truer and more sincere relationships.
And since even the wrong image that one gives of oneself can depend on the influence of the stars, today after having seen what pushes the zodiac signs to close a story and which are the most aggressive signs of the zodiac, we will find out what is the thing that the others think, wrongly, of the various signs of the zodiac. An aspect for which it is very important to also check your ascendant. And this is because many times, a wrong idea can arise from an external way of behaving that collides with the traits of the other sign that tends to dominate the emotions. By observing both you will have a clearer idea of ​​both how you look and how to move to change things.
What others think of you based on your zodiac sign
Aries – That you are selfish
We assume that, except for substantial differences depending on your ascendant, your nature has something selfish about it. However, it is about that positive ego that leads you to put yourself at the center of your world and do it directly, without pretending to have interests that you do not have. Although your brightness and the vitality you put into everything you do are seen by everyone as something positive, sometimes others may get a negative idea about your way of being and making certain choices. The fact that you are always ready to embark on new adventures and that to do so you always try to choose what can benefit you appears in fact as a selfish act.
Added to this is the fact that many times you find yourself choosing for yourself without worrying about the people around you. An aspect that perhaps you could polish up a little so that you are more empathetic at least with those you love. Changing in this respect could improve, among other things, the image others have of you.
Taurus – That you are chilly
Yes, although you are a person capable of unconditionally loving others, people tend to think that you are chilly. It must be said, however, that your way of dealing with those you do not know well helps to make some errors of evaluation. Your fear of feeling bad for others often leads you to be cold and distant. Or, at least, not to give that amount of affection you reserve for the people you love and know well. This problem could lead you to lose possible friendships, even beautiful and positive ones, and all for an appearance that does not match at all with who you are. Try to be more open to others, without immediately opening the doors of your heart to him, it can be a good way to let you grasp your true essence and attract to you people who can’t wait to get to know you better and who have so much to offer you. It’s about overcoming your fears by a few steps. Doing so, however, could give you great satisfaction.
Gemini – That you are distracted
Okay, maybe in some circumstances you are a little distracted. Normally, though, you tend to pay close attention to the world around you. Only, you do it your way and this can lead others to misunderstand you and get a different idea of ​​you from the real thing. If you’re being sociable and communicative makes you super appreciated even by those who barely know you, the curiosity you have towards the world makes others think that you have no time to dedicate to them. This aspect can lead to big misunderstandings. These are not that important in the most superficial relationships but they can become so with important ones. Someone who shows interest in you, for example, may decide not to delve into things because they are convinced that there is not the same interest on your part. Showing your feelings and making an effort to appear more focused when you know someone could help others get to know you better and understand how you are. Once this is achieved, you can go back to being yourself. Those who know you appreciate everything about you, even your eccentric and often incomprehensible way of understanding life.
Cancer – That you are haughty
Even if you don’t always realize it, the way you deal with those you don’t know well can sometimes be misunderstood. So, even if you have acted normally in your eyes, showing yourself helpful and kind, others can see you as a person who poses. This depends on the fact that between shyness and desire to please, you don’t know how to open up immediately. And, your studying others is thus misunderstood. This is a marginal problem but if it happens with the wrong people it can create problems or lead you to lose important contacts or that you cared about. Opening up a little more and showing yourself who you are are ways to get to know you better and show the real you. The one who, if she trusts, knows how to be in the hand exactly like everyone else and that when she loves she gives herself 100% while expecting the same treatment in return. Maybe you may not like everyone but,
Leo – That you have little time for those you love
Your being very busy with yourself and what you do in life tends to give you a slightly exasperated idea of ​​yourself. Although you are someone who likes to concentrate as much as possible on work and who is willing to sacrifice even some free time to look their best, you are not exactly the workaholic that everyone believes. This image depends on your behavior which is often unfiltered and doesn’t care much about what others may think. Those who love you know very well how much you are there and what you can give and if they choose to be part of your life it is because they share its thoughts and values. Those who don’t know you, however, have no way of getting to see this side of you. So, the only thing you can do to prevent others from thinking badly about you is to show yourself a little more,
Okay, maybe for once you won’t be the center of attention but at least you can make yourself understood better. And above all, you can prevent others from thinking about your things that even if not entirely wrong, if perceived at the extremes can be negative.
Virgo – That you have no feelings
One of your biggest problems is being able to communicate what you feel. With the people you love and who know you well, it all works out easily but things go very differently with strangers. The way he poses you makes you look like someone who doesn’t have who knows what feelings, who is exclusively career-oriented, and who only cares about himself. If you add to this your being often hypercritical the result is practically obvious. Since you are not at all what you appear to be and you too, like everyone, have a beating heart, maybe you should just learn to show yourself more. Being less rigid with those you barely know and admitting what you feel without always wanting to play the part of the person all in one piece, will make a difference. In this way, others will gradually get to know you and, most likely, this could lead you to create new and satisfying relationships. Relationships that without a change on your part you would end up losing without even knowing it.
Libra – That you are too rigid
Although you are a person of sweet nature and loved by all, at the beginning of an acquaintance you can give the idea of ​​being a little too rigid. This depends on your always staid way of carrying and that combined with your being polite and never excessive makes you appear almost fake. An idea that is easy to recognize as wrong after a short time but that at first tends to remain etched. So, even if in your eyes you have been kind, on the other hand, the idea could be of a purely formal courtesy and not aimed at wanting to know each other better. This is a situation that can create problems. If on the one hand, it helps you to push away people you don’t like to have around you, on the other hand, it can also do it with those you are interested in.
The only way you can get rid of this wrong first impression is to learn to be more yourself and to accept the fact that sometimes showing even a few flaws can be good. Only in this way, in fact, will you be able to appear more real and attract those you believe can become part of your life.
Scorpio – That you are too strong
It may sound strange but people often tend to feel intimidated by your presence. You’re always appearing strong and apparently without fragility makes the difference. It tends to alienate even those who at first felt attracted to your way of being. Since you have a lot to offer and losing potential friendships would be a real problem, you should train yourself not to constantly wear your mask. Showing yourself as you truly are even with those you don’t know will help you attract a lot more people. Of course, for you, this is an important change that you are not convinced of. Yet, it is precisely in your human being that you can give so much to others, allowing you to truly bond with yourself. Being less reserved is therefore the purpose that you must give yourself and to which you must aspire. It will only be when you feel able to tell how you are without fear of appearing weak that others will open up to you. In this way, they will finally feel at ease and ready to love you the good you deserve.
Sagittarius – That you give yourself too many airs
Your way of doing and the desire you always have to show yourself to the maximum, risk making you appear as a person who gives himself too many airs. Those who barely know you tend to look at you with suspicion trying to understand what is strange in your way of doing. If on the one hand, you describe yourself as a sensitive person and who cares a lot about affections (which is true by the way), on the other hand, you put in too much bravado. And even if it’s a way to protect yourself from others, those who don’t know you can’t know it. And that leads to a misconception of yourself. An idea that can push more than one person to distance themselves.
Being a little less defensive and trying to show your best without fear and unnecessary reluctance is the best way you have to make yourself known and to make others approach you, aware of what to expect. Of course, at first, doing it may seem strange and at times difficult, once you have taken the measures and seen the first results, you will be the first to convince yourself that you have taken the right path.
Capricorn – That you are too strict
In the eyes of those who don’t know you well, you can appear a little too severe. This is because you tend to judge the work of others often. What you do often and willingly self incensing yourself to let everyone know your infinite qualities. Yours is a way of doing things that can receive approval but can also be intimidating or excessive. Thus, it ends up that those who do not know you well and ignore your humorous side and your ability to be helpful to others may think badly of you. An aspect that can turn out to be negative, especially with those people who, more similar to you than you think, could enter your life making it more enjoyable. To change things you must therefore learn to relax, especially when you are with new people. Leaving aside the most perfectionist version of you and making room for the one who loves parties and who when he wants to know even fun, can change the quality of your meetings a lot. And, over time, allow you to rediscover even a pleasant way of living life. A way that at the moment you do not contemplate at all but which can offer you much more than you are willing to believe.
Aquarius – That you are detached
An image of you that others have often and willingly concerns the way you interact with people. Often, due to her being elusive and always taken by your things, she is a bit chilly. It is an image that reaches in particular to those towards whom you do not give much confidence. Which makes their thinking actually in line with the way you carry yourself. Every so often, however, those who live in you from the outside, seeing how you act can get the same idea. A situation that you do not care much about but which can be a problem especially if it occurs in the workplace or among people in whom you have a certain interest. A good way to change things is to show yourself more open and ready for dialogue and to be more smiling with everyone. You will find the time to drive away those you don’t care about anyway. In this way, however, you will avoid losing people on the street who, instead, could bring a breath of fresh air into your life, making it even more beautiful.
Pisces – That you are not that strong
Your sweetness and the kind way you always treat those around you lead open-hearted people to appreciate you more. This leads them to feel happy even for the mere fact of knowing you. Those who do not know how to recognize and appreciate the goodness of heart, on the other hand, end up getting a completely wrong idea of ​​you. The first thought of some is that of having in front of a person who is not very determined or lacking in strength. A completely wrong thought but which could lead those who love to live off improprieties to try to overwhelm you. Fortunately, you are such a strong and resilient person that you have nothing to fear. Your strength speaks very well for you. And if you want to be honest, you don’t even need to change.
By remaining what you are, you will be the first to recognize those who should be turned away. In extremis, if you want to make people understand who you are, you just need to be a little less available at the first contact. Which means avoiding empathy. But is it worth it?
