The thing every zodiac sign should do to make the relationship work.
Life as a couple can be beautiful, but it can also be difficult to engage with. After all, we are talking about two different people who have to find different meeting points and learn to walk at the same pace. Simple goals but which can often be difficult, especially if you have to deal with very different characters and temperaments. Yet, to make things go their best, sometimes you just need to work on yourself and try to change some ways of being. Which, if done on the other side, can lead to a balanced and functional relationship.
To do this, you need to know yourself well even before your partner. Many of the ways of doing things that can sometimes represent a hindrance most of the time appear almost invisible to us. These can be attitudes acquired over time, defenses for failed experiences in the past or ways of being that depends on the influence of the stars. So today, after seeing what drives the zodiac signs to close a story and which are the most aggressive signs of the zodiac, we will find out how to make a relationship work according to the zodiac sign. An aspect for which it is always advisable to also check the profile of the ascendant. In this way, you will have a broader vision of what you need to do to best live your love story.
What the signs of the zodiac have to do to make their love story work
Aries – Being less into yourself
Those born under the sign of Aries are people who think first of all about themselves. This aspect, of course, also applies to love. When dealing with their partner, they are always ready to receive but hardly ever to give. And that, in the long run, can create a lot of problems for him. While they love their partner, they find it hard to accept the normal compromises of a couple’s life. At the same time, they do not care in the least about the sacrifices that are made for them. The real problem is that to feel fulfilled in a relationship, they need someone who can handle them.
And this, given their attitude, leads to conflicts of all kinds which, in the long run, can ruin the harmony of the couple, leading to discussions of all kinds and often even to a crisis. A problem that the natives of the sign can only stem by committing to change a little and collaborating more with the partner to make things work.
Taurus – Offer more understanding
The natives of Taurus have always dreamed of living a great love story. So when they meet a partner with whom to build something they are always more than happy to do it. At the same time, they try to do their utmost to make ends meet. Their view of things, however, often and willingly tends to be too rigid. This leads them not to understand each other with their partner. Which can happen due to their being jealous, sometimes possessive, and often touchy. Characteristics that, if not mediated, can create friction and push the partner to distance themselves. For a relationship that can move forward in time, it is therefore essential that the natives of the sign be able to become more empathic and put themselves in the shoes of the person with whom they are.
Gemini – Be more stable
Those born under the sign of Gemini are authentic people, fun, and always able to animate the environment in which they move. On the other hand, however, they have some ways of doing that often confuse those around them. One of them is their constant change of mind about things. Duals like no other sign, when dealing with their partner, can go from a cheerful mood to a depressed one even in a matter of minutes. A destabilizing way of doing things that leads to not knowing how to take them. If you add to this the fact that they often change their minds about things, varying even long-standing projects, it is obvious to imagine how being with them can be difficult. Unless you are (like them) lovers of the unexpected, a partner will always find it difficult to not know if and how to make certain plans. And, needless to say, this ends up also being reflected in the vision of life as a couple. To make the relationship more serene, therefore, the natives of the sign should learn to find a kind of personal stability. In this way, by learning to manage mood swings and not be afraid to plan things, they will be able to reach a new point of union with the person they love.
Cancer – Be more realistic
The natives of Cancer are extremely romantic and in some ways unrealistic. This way of being, when they live in a relationship, tends to amplify. For them, the partner is someone who lives with the sole purpose of seeing them happy. And that leads them to always expect great things from the person they are with. Often, even exaggerating. The problem is that they are so in need of love that when they feel that the other side is not doing the best, they tend to take it to death. Thus, in addition to putting the muzzle, they move away, assuming an attitude that can hurt the partner. Especially when he’s unaware of what’s going on. The first thing they should do to go towards a relationship that can work is therefore to put their feet on the ground a little. Realizing that the person they are with is an ordinary mortal and that he cannot in any way satisfy their every need, would help them to change their way of doing better. To this must also be added a greater understanding of the other and the desire to lower the demands. Sometimes love can be felt even by small gestures. Understanding this will help them embrace a new way of experiencing the relationship.
Leo – Don’t always put yourself first
Those born under the sign of Leo have an innate need to always be the center of attention. This is also reflected in private life and, in particular, in the relationship with the partner. Most of the time, their way of acting does not cause major problems. And this happens thanks to the ability with which they usually choose partners capable of supporting them and acting as their shoulder. Occasionally, however, even those who love being close to him may have needs. And if these are regularly ignored, the reaction could sooner or later change. For this reason, learning to value the partner more, listening to him, and understanding his needs, would certainly give a different impetus to the couple’s relationship. Teaming up and learning to put yourself in the background at least once in a while would be welcomed with surprise and joy.
And, for those who know them, it would be a great gesture of love. So, even if difficult for their character, natives of the sign should learn to give themselves more and to experience the joy of seeing the person they love in the limelight. At least once in a while.
Virgo – Make less criticism
Virgo natives are famous for their habit of always saying what they think. Which, most of the time, happens without worrying about hurting the listener or not. Always ready to catch every possible mistake and timely in pointing it out, their way of acting can be heavy and, needless to say, get to upset the partner. As much as it is something they do almost instinctively, the impact they have on others is still heavy. For this reason, natives of the sign need to be able to think several times before expressing a thought that they know could hurt. It is therefore a question of acquiring a new way of doing things. And to do that they need to hone their skills. As complex as it may seem to them, a minimum of effort would be enough to improve things. The partner would feel more relaxed and finally free to express himself to the fullest. A difference within the couple can lead to greater complicity and a much deeper and certainly pleasant relationship of knowledge to experience.
Libra – Judge a little less
Those born under the sign of Libra are particularly pleasant people and with whom it is always pleasant to be in contact. However, if you enter into particular confidence, they tend to put aside that subtle distance made up of kindness to be more sincere. While this aspect helps to get to know them better, on the other it can lead to complications. The natives of the sign have the habit of expressing judgments on the way of acting of others. Which they do even more when it comes to the partner. Although most of the time they are also right opinions, expressing them coldly and without choosing the right words almost always ends up hurting or hurting those who receive them.
In order not to make the relationship with the partner tense, the natives of the sign should therefore always try to filter what they say. This does not mean not being sincere but simply making different use of words. Which can help a lot in a two-person relationship, avoiding unnecessary tension.
Scorpio – Being more tolerant
The natives of Scorpio are very special people. Sure of themselves thanks to the ability to know themselves better than anyone else, they tend to expect the same from those around them as well. Of course, not everyone is made the same. And this is a detail that the natives of the sign do not like very much. When it comes to the partner, their need to always find a meeting point leads them to be very tolerant of differences. An attitude that can sometimes be difficult to deal with and that can end up leading to even important tensions. For this reason, natives of the sign should learn to listen more to their partner and to accept any differences of opinion with serenity. It will be only by discussing it freely and without unnecessary tension that it will be possible to face the matter with relative serenity. By doing so, the partner will feel freer to express themselves and the relationship between the two will undoubtedly benefit. Not to mention that it is precisely from the confrontation that the greatest complicity can arise.
Sagittarius – Expect less
Those born under the sign of Sagittarius are free spirits. And, as such, they often struggle to see each other in a relationship. When despite everything they decide to commit to someone, they do it by starting to demand without necessarily giving. It is an attitude that they implement without worrying too much about it. And all because they are convinced that the fact of being there is already significant in itself. In reality, however, the partner always needs to feel wanted and sought after and this attitude of theirs risks hurting him and making him push away. A problem that natives of the sign tend to underestimate all too often and which they realize when it is too late.
By working on it first and making an effort to offer at least as much as they receive, things will only get better. And, even they will be able to live a more tailored and pleasant relationship.
Capricorn – Learning to change your mind
Capricorn natives are among the most stubborn signs in the zodiac. This aspect, of course, can be heavy for those who frequent them and, even more so, for the partner. When they put something in their head it is impossible to make them change their mind. This is made even worse by their being proud and therefore reluctant to admit that they have done something wrong. Unfortunately, they do not always realize their way of being, and even making them notice the result does not change. Obviously, in the long run, the relationship with the partner can come out of it tried and lead to a crisis or a cooling of the relationship. Either way, a good way to prevent this from happening and to try to solidify the relationship is to learn to change your mind. To succeed, the natives of the sign should work on themselves and strive to always remain open and ready for dialogue. A change that would certainly receive approval, especially from the partner.
Aquarius – Open up more
Those born under the sign of Aquarius are too reserved and constantly focused on themselves. This, for a relationship, is quite deleterious. Their constant need for privacy is especially so, which always risks making their partner feel left out. A situation that, of course, can only create annoyance and tension. Unfortunately for them, the natives of the sign cannot be different and when they feel criticized in some way, they tend to take it out instead of looking for a solution. If in love with their partner and eager to be together, however, they should find an alternative path and commit to change. Opening up more and learning to be communicative would, for example, be a good start. They would learn to discover new aspects of the partner, entering into a whole new harmony.
Pisces – Finding a Balance
The natives of Pisces live in a constant precarious balance between dreams and reality. This aspect also affects the relationship with the partner. Dreams are what usually prevails. And this, at times, can lead them to experience the relationship in a surreal way. Although they are not signs with particular problems in relationships, wanting to look for some aspect that can be improved, this could be the balance. Being more poised and balanced in their constant wandering between dreams and reality would help. The partner would be able to feel more confident and even understand them better. Of course, no one says they have to give up their way of being altogether. It is one of the aspects that usually enchant those around him the most.
Being able to dose things better, however, would lead them to live their relationship better. Working on this aspect they would always know what they want and this would make them able to give more precise answers also about themselves. A small change that could make the relationship even more intense and enjoyable.